I am very interested in finding someone to be excited about!
In the grand scheme of life I may not know much...but I do know what I want in a partner and I will work like hell for the things I am committed to (and I have a track record that shows it).
What would get my attention:
Someone who is fun, healthy, fit, witty, intelligent and communicative.
Someone who understands and wants a relationship / partnership.
It's so great when you know someone has got your back and you've got theirs.
A woman who is good at asking for what she wants/needs and appreciates others who are able to do this as well. Someone who sees the differences between the sexes as a good thing and is fascinated by the psychology of it all. Someone who understands that a healthy sensual life is vital to a happy healthy fulfilled relationship.
Nothing is sexier than a woman living a self generated and empowered life and then wanting a partner from that place. I am interested in you being complete on your own and choosing to have me in your life not because you need someone but because you think life would be better with a really great partner. In other words you want a relationship you don't need one. Unlike in Jerry Maguire I don't want to "Complete You". I want us both to be complete on our own then can you imagine where we can take it from there?
I am interested in someone with the ability to push back from time to time and have the difficult conversations when something is off. A woman who has done her inner work. Doing your work is key to being able to have the tough conversations and really get back to good. Our stuff will come up. The real question is how are you going to respond? It's never about the thing and it's always about how you respond to the thing.
I am really good at being supportive, a cheerleader, someone who's committed to you AND the bigger picture while not being afraid to point out any inconsistencies I see. My main interest and commitment is to my partners well being. I would love to find a woman who feels the same way.
Content providers/Books I have gotten a lot from in the relationship genre:
Book: Radical Honesty
Kelly Brogan
Sadia Khan (psychologist with amazing videos on YT)
David Dieda
Byron Katie
Teal Swan
What would get my attention:
Someone who is fun, healthy, fit, witty, intelligent and communicative.
Someone who understands and wants a relationship / partnership.
It's so great when you know someone has got your back and you've got theirs.
A woman who is good at asking for what she wants/needs and appreciates others who are able to do this as well. Someone who sees the differences between the sexes as a good thing and is fascinated by the psychology of it all. Someone who understands that a healthy sensual life is vital to a happy healthy fulfilled relationship.
Nothing is sexier than a woman living a self generated and empowered life and then wanting a partner from that place. I am interested in you being complete on your own and choosing to have me in your life not because you need someone but because you think life would be better with a really great partner. In other words you want a relationship you don't need one. Unlike in Jerry Maguire I don't want to "Complete You". I want us both to be complete on our own then can you imagine where we can take it from there?
I am interested in someone with the ability to push back from time to time and have the difficult conversations when something is off. A woman who has done her inner work. Doing your work is key to being able to have the tough conversations and really get back to good. Our stuff will come up. The real question is how are you going to respond? It's never about the thing and it's always about how you respond to the thing.
I am really good at being supportive, a cheerleader, someone who's committed to you AND the bigger picture while not being afraid to point out any inconsistencies I see. My main interest and commitment is to my partners well being. I would love to find a woman who feels the same way.
Content providers/Books I have gotten a lot from in the relationship genre:
Book: Radical Honesty
Kelly Brogan
Sadia Khan (psychologist with amazing videos on YT)
David Dieda
Byron Katie
Teal Swan
Here are a couple great videos on relationships...
Let's do it like this please :-)
Alex Hormozi makes so many great points here.
These 10 tips are really good.
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Taking a page out of Alex Hormozi's book (from the video above).
Here is a list about the downsides of me from previous feedback... (so if you are good with all of them then hey it will probably work out!) I am energetic...I will probably be up before you doing stuff...and when I am inspired working on a project I may be up way late too. I am kind of particular about food. I know how bad so much of it is. I skip eating instead of eat bad food. You are what you eat and food is medicine. I do many things in the direction of my health that some think are weird. I get overly enthusiastic about things and business ideas. I solve problems by talking about them. I talk more than your avg guy. If we are at odds I don't like it. I will keep trying to get it back to good. I have a hard time leaving it for later. I will have the difficult conversations because I have learned it's way better that way in the long run. Cooking doesn't come easy for me. I can do it but I generally don't do complicated stuff. If you are a good cook I can learn. I have been told I steal the covers. |